For the past year a good friend has been recommending I check out my local chapter of 100 Women Who Care. When I learned of their Small Commitment Big Impact structure I knew it would be a great thing to be a part of. I am now not only a member but will also be helping in some of the social media platforms for the group. In support of the group this evening as well was Tea With Tracie and The Sandwich Society. 100 Women Who Care meets 4 times per year and each member brings $100 with them. Three local charities are nominated by members who then present on these respective charities. The group then votes anonymously and the charity with the most votes will recieve the donated proceeds from the evening. I was so glad to finally attend my first meeting and contribute to these causes. February’s Charity of Choice was Ian Anderson House. The next meetup is May 27th in Oakville. Who is joining me? www.100womenoakville.com and the new instagram www.instagram.com/100womenwhocareoakville
Woah! Where did the time go? No really…where the flip did it go?
After the excitement and the balloon emojis, “get it girl” comments faded down my instagram feed into neverland I was left with…ME. Well to be more clear ME and my Computer and the quiet stillness of working from home. I have this contentment despite the swirl of unknowns that surround me and my family and my life and for someone who runs their anxiety at a steady 7.5 this is new for me. Here’s my observations so far:
Being Home Alone is Super Strange
I have been so used to getting up with kids, then in my car and pulling out of the driveway and off to a day of colleaues and business and then turning around and coming home to kids and their business. Now, once the kids are off, I sit down with a coffee at a quiet desk and the day ahead is eerily wonderful. However I keep thinking the phone will ring and a voice on the other end will say “where are you, you are supposed to be in “XYZ” meeting.
I Don’t Miss the Small Talk
I am a girl who loves to share and chat, but I am ALSO a gal who love to get down into a convo that has meaning quickly, so not having to do the “how was your weekend/kids” convo has been nice.
Not Spending 200 mins in the Car Driving Gives You 200 Extra Minutes
This one needs no explanation. Also ZOOM calls have been so great for local collaborations. It’s supposed to be very cold this winter, so this will come in handy.
You Will Meet the Most Amazing Women Following their Passions
I had an idea of this world of boss ladies in the first 6 months of business as I attended meetups and groups. There is this subset of female entrepreneurs that exist that will rock your socks off. In saying that, I had no clue to the level that I would be inspired, pushed, championed and cheered on in my first few weeks. I have been asked for coffee, I have been invited to movie dates, I have been on inspiring video chats with people who know what they are doing far better than I, and are willing to share. Can you tell I am gushing? It’s because corporate is a competitive, political place for many. If this isn’t your current workplace yay! Celebrate that!
Meetings are Now at Cafe’s and Restaurants
Lots is the same in terms of scheduling and prep. You still need a pen and paper and you still need to ask the right questions and focus but now it involves the sound of beans grinding and/or a club sandwich.
If I Need Time for Things I Can Just Take It
Doctors Appointment? Work Out? Massage? Chuck dinner from the freezer to defrost. No Problem
Being Accountable to Yourself Makes You Proud
This is a given, but setting goals in the morning and completing them by the end of the day and having productive and forward moving strategy conversations along the way gives a surge of accomplishment and energy like no other.
Planting seeds (or quotes in my case) or responding to those price inquiries, that coffee date, that network session… all of that will pay off…in time. You have to let it and believe it, and keep reaching out for new connections until they do.
You Can Wear Your Killer Signature Outfit More than Once
Got a few meetings in a few days, love that white blouse that has the right combo of flattering lines and boss status? Repeat that sucker! No one knows!
Every Day Is Exciting
I don’t mean leap out of bed and singing with cartoons exciting. More that each day is different, each day has a new opportunity and each day has potential.
You Will Say to Yourself “What and I Doing?” or “I Don’t Know What I am Doing”
At least 20 times every DAMN day, and each time you have to pull that warrior voice inside and say “you’ve got this”.
On to next week. I’ve got this.
I have been so inspired this week by fellow entreprenuers waving their productivity flags and checking goals off of carefully curated lists while also having time to put their feet up for tea. I have been celebrating with them and for them all the while wondering “where the heck do I start?”. I recently made the leap from part time to full time entrepreneur. I use the term “part-time” loosely because when you are spending 6-8 hours a day on a business and all of your weekends it really isn’t a side gig is it? Lets be honest… I had two damn jobs! And I will also be honest… I think I thrive and love being busy. Not just a little busy, like no time to breathe busy. Can’t catch up busy. Backlogged clients waiting in a line busy. I have asked myself why I seem to enjoy this unhealthy pace, because I am fully aware that it is unhealthy and I have concluded that it gives me a zing, energy and a drive that keeps me really productive. So now, having stepped away from a corporate clock in clock out 9-5 in order to focus on my entrepreneurial venture…. I am a little bit frozen. Not for lack of ideas, or clients or excitement. It’s because I no longer report to anyone but ME. That is both excitingly free and an exceptional amount of pressure. What does me as a boss expect from myself? This journey is a lot about business but it’s also a lot about self discovery. Holding a mirror up to yourself and reporting back to yourself, and measuring your progress against YOU. No wonder I am a bit gun shy…that is a hard ask.
Now here’s the good news. Slowing down is a good thing for me. Slowing down on my busy schedule means that I have TIME now. Time for my projects, time to work on the right tasks for my business, think proactively, grow at a reasonable pace and learn to time manage in a way that works best for me. Oh, and maybe even a little time for tea.